doingthingsinthedesert:

jarofbees:

Ever since doingthingsinthedesert and tricksofthelight both up and left, chatting has been meaningless and futile.

Aw, I miss you guys too. But I’ll see peoples at the wedding!

Everyone can feel free to come west for a visit~

I don’t care how many times she asks, my mother in law is not going to randomly stay with us without notice. I do not run my life last-minute. Comply, or die mad.

Cheating isn’t always kissing, touching, or flirting. If you gotta delete text messages so your partner won’t see, you’re already there.. — (via ieatyourgirlright)

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this scene yaaaaaaaaasssss

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judgmentalmaps:

Albuquerque, NM #2by Rusty Rutherford and Conrad Nicodermus
Rusty Rutherford and Conrad Nicodermus Copr. 2014. All Rights Reserved.ONE CITY. TWO JUDGMENTAL MAPS. Click to see the Albuquerque, NM #1 Map. Tell us in the comments which one you like better!

woo speed lane. We couldn’t afford to live in the northeast whites.

judgmentalmaps:

Albuquerque, NM #2
by Rusty Rutherford and Conrad Nicodermus

Rusty Rutherford and Conrad Nicodermus Copr. 2014. All Rights Reserved.

ONE CITY. TWO JUDGMENTAL MAPS. Click to see the Albuquerque, NM #1 Map. Tell us in the comments which one you like better!

woo speed lane. We couldn’t afford to live in the northeast whites.

IT’S NEW COMPUTER DAAAAAY

so I’m sitting in the office, impatiently, waiting for my new 15” retina MacBook Pro and 27” Thunderbolt Display to show up so I can inhale the new computer smell.

jarofbees:

dice-corner-of-shame:

Rolled a 1 on my attack then a 6 for number of rounds

Oh my god, if there’s one thing in this world for which I am incredibly thankful, it’s that my DM doesn’t roll on a critical failure table. I would spend more time unconscious and/or bleeding to death than I already do.

Then your DM is hella nice. I remember a certain campaign where in one conflict I broke my ranged AND melee weapons (yay back to back ones) and then was blinded by our chaos mage’s color spray (yay he rolled a one too).

jarofbees:

dice-corner-of-shame:

Rolled a 1 on my attack then a 6 for number of rounds

Oh my god, if there’s one thing in this world for which I am incredibly thankful, it’s that my DM doesn’t roll on a critical failure table. I would spend more time unconscious and/or bleeding to death than I already do.

Then your DM is hella nice. I remember a certain campaign where in one conflict I broke my ranged AND melee weapons (yay back to back ones) and then was blinded by our chaos mage’s color spray (yay he rolled a one too).

I have learned, the hard way, that just because you stay home with your children, doesn’t mean you have provided a home for them. I consider this to be a woman’s obligation to her family, and an important part of her vocation. Taking care of your children and your home is a full time job, and maybe we have just shoved in too many “extra curricular activities” to be able to enjoy it. — crazy catholic whackadoodle
zohbugg:

YES SAURON, LORD OF MORDOR, WILL HAVE THE HERB CRUSTED SALMON FILET PLEASE.
AND THIS IS SAURON’S CHEAT DAY SO SAURON WILL TREAT HIMSELF TO THE CHOCOLATE RASPBERRY TRUFFLE CHEESECAKE.
SAURON DESERVES IT.


Never stop reblogging.

zohbugg:

YES SAURON, LORD OF MORDOR, WILL HAVE THE HERB CRUSTED SALMON FILET PLEASE.

AND THIS IS SAURON’S CHEAT DAY SO SAURON WILL TREAT HIMSELF TO THE CHOCOLATE RASPBERRY TRUFFLE CHEESECAKE.

SAURON DESERVES IT.

Never stop reblogging.

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Finances

So, this isn’t going to be a “bitch about my husband” post, because we’ve both come to jesus that he’s terrible with money. I’ve tried doing the separate accounts thing, joint accounts thing, cash thing, etc. Nothing really works, and he’s terrible at looking at the account (and knowing what bills have cleared, etc.). Overall, he’s terrible with money. I’m not great at it, but I’m trying to put a budget in place so we can get our shit together and stop being in debt. With the kind of money we make, there’s no reason we should be in debt.

I called the bank and found out that they can put a daily spending limit on his debit card. This may or may not help curb his stupid impulse purchases, we’ll see. I also looked into getting a personal loan to wipe out most of our credit card debt, and it’ll only be about $420 a month (36 month loan, no penalty for early payoff). I’ve never done that kind of loan before, and it makes me very nervous, but the interest rate is better than the cards that we’re barely making above the minimum payment on, so it might end up being a better choice.

The whole idea behind this is to stop using credit as if it was cash, which is a mental block I’m working hard to overcome. I’ve taken Chris’s cards away (except for the debit card), and I really want to get us to the point where we don’t think about the credit cards as our emergency fund. It’s a bad place to be. This whole car accident thing has really put things into perspective for me (since it’s now cost us $300 for a rental, $500 for the deductible, and now we have to repay the $400 that his work gave us to pay for the rental).

Should I just keep trying to find extra money to pay this stuff down at astronomical interest rates, or go with the personal loan? Anyone have any advice on this either way?

thechapterfourblog:

Holy shit.
If that doesn’t put the finest point on it you’ve ever seen/heard, I don’t know what does.

thechapterfourblog:

Holy shit.

If that doesn’t put the finest point on it you’ve ever seen/heard, I don’t know what does.

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you still had at least 5% battery, what the FUCK is your damage — every iphone user as their phone dies (via heythisisbecky)

stop-chicken-nugget-abuse:

nevvzealand:

happy birthday someone

I like reblog going this becaUSE WHAT IF YOU SAW THIS ON YOUR BIRTHDAY HOW COOL WOULD THAT BE

close enough

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I am never again working from home with a toddler and no help.